Sometimes in life, shitty things happen. This is inevitable, and eventually something bad will happen to every one. When these bad things happen, some times theres nothing you can do to fix it and that is okay.
The common saying is, “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” It’s a great phrase. Basically meaning turn a bad situation into a good one. In theory, this is great but a lot of times, the lemons are so sour that there is no way to turn it into lemonade. I think a more realistic phrase would be, “When life gives you rotten sorry excuses for lemons, turn them into something that starts to taste like mediocre lemonade.” By this I mean take a bad situation and figure out how you will grow because of it. The majority of the time, a bad situation can’t be spun into a good one. The good news is, bad situations always teach us something or give us an opportunity to grow.
Next time something bad happens, sit back and reflect how this makes you a stronger rather than mope and be upset about it. Rather than roll with the punches, absorb the blow and figure out how to dodge the next one. Life is full of good and bad things. The bad things can’t turn into good things, often times. Take the bad things and learn from them.
Too often I see people write negative reviews of companies on yelp and social networking sights. I think its fine to express a negative experience you had at a business and make it known you were unhappy. With that being said, it is just as important to write positive reviews that applaud companies for doing things right.
It is so easy to have a nice experience and not write about it because it has no emotional connection. It experience that angers you will drive you to express those negative feelings. We should try to express our positive experiences just as often. Many small businesses struggle to make a profit and can’t make themselves known to a large population. By writing nice reviews, we can help these businesses gain footing and advance.
I challenge you to right a nice review any time you have a pleasant experience with a company. It will make you feel good as well as give the business a positive advertising. By writing nice reviews, we can encourage businesses to focus on customer service and customer experience rather than just on profit. If a company knows that you will praise them for a good experience, they will do whatever they can to ensure you have that positive interaction.
Society often gets caught up in the bad parts of life, we need to shift or attention to the good moments. By rewarding these good experiences we can make more of them happen.